Befriend, friend, unfriend or maybe just detached friend. The whole ordeal of unplugging and re-establishing your life in a different city with a different person has a profound effect on friends. They don't like it and it's a form of "don't like you". Sorry about that. it's an aftermath of irascibility associated with embarking in the witness protection plan or the pseudo version that your friends suspect you being in. It all works out, though - you find out who really loves you and who doesn't. It's another one of those living examples of the correctness of the universe. Our twosome is recovering from some down time and treated themselves to a disgruntled fundamental Christian who acted out his conversion to unbeliever by making a documentary and then followed that with a study on stress that affirmed inclusion, association and team work as the antidote. W & J found this approach before they met - win/win and psychology and pleasing vs. squeeky wheel and being a prick to win the battle. Why does ideology have to be idea based? It's like God from the book instead of God in your heart. Astro Guy Tyson says to know more today about our world than you knew yesterday and lessen the suffering of others and you'd be surprised how far that gets you.